HOLISTIC MAMA
My parenting support
When you become a mother, your whole life is turned upside down.
We ask ourselves ten thousand questions about how to do it, how to survive exhaustion, how to continue a "normal" life despite the constant demands of our child...
What if I told you there was a way to overcome this while still finding your center?
My holistic approach:
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Active listening: I offer you active listening that will bring to light your emotions that emerge when you encounter difficulties with your child and that will also leave you a space to connect with your own resources, even those that you are still unaware of. .
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We identify together the area(s) in which you need clarity.
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I share with you the information provided by the most recent studies in the field of neuroscience on child development, based on work carried out by doctors such as Gabor Maté or psychoanalysts recognized for their work on child development such as Françoise Dolto and Alice Miller, family therapists like Laura Gutman who created the "School of Human Biography" of which I am a student.
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Together, we discuss options for creating new patterns that promote family harmony while respecting your child's rhythm.
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We work on your personal story in order to bring you more clarity on the real experience of your childhood and to understand in all its dimension the impact it has on your parenthood.
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I offer you a guided meditation to clear the emotional blockage of your childhood to lighten and allow you to connect with your child.
I guide you to reconnect with your inner child, to recognize exactly what needs from your childhood were not validated and met.
What survival mechanisms have you developed that make you who you are today?
With this accompaniment, you will not only succeed in illuminating your day-to-day life but also in growing through this experience.
Create new patterns in your relationships, experience intuitive parenthood, regain confidence in your ability to be a mother.
Harmonize relations with your spouse and those around you.
Find the strength to assert yourself with society for your educational choices.
You offer yourself the guarantee of a harmonious relationship with your child You thus optimize his development into a serene, centered, benevolent adult who knows how to find in him the resources necessary to overcome the obstacles of life.
IMAGINE HOW DIFFERENT EVERYTHING WOULD BE IF YOU COULD....
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have a more objective understanding of yourself
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Ditch the patterns you inherited or programmed by the company
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find your way of mothering corresponding exactly to the needs of your child who is unique and without the help of anyone
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Stop feeling guilty about suffering and being in need
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reconnect with your resources to create new patterns more in harmony with your essential being and your values
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No longer need to be validated by those around you in your educational choices and therefore to regain total self-confidence
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be more loving and less demanding of yourself and thus become so with your child
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manage conflicts with your child constructively
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feeling that you are doing exactly what is needed to keep your child happy
A piece of me...
Coming from a family in which violence was the means of communication par excellence, the consequences of trauma began to be seen from an early age.
All my life before becoming a mother, I undertook, as I called it, "the construction site" in order to pick up the pieces of my being and finally be able to fill it.
Becoming a mother made me realize that simply wanting to be benevolent was not enough to be.
I understood that knowing the needs of the children was not enough to succeed in satisfying them.
Only work on my personal history could help me connect the two.
So I started therapy with Laura Gutman who is a pioneer in the field of motherhood and child development.
Thanks to this work of self-knowledge I was finally able to measure the dimension of the traumas of my childhood.
Becoming aware of the impact that the filial relationship between mother and child has on its development made me want to train myself and help other mothers like me, exhausted, no longer knowing what to do. "good", plagued by remarks from society for wanting to create new and benevolent schemes.
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Understanding childhood needs not only opened my eyes to the dimension of my trauma and its impact on the person I am today, but also to know exactly how to best support my son in the development of his essential being. .
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I believe in a better future thanks to new generations of children who will be more aware and benevolent than today.
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I understood that to promote this vision, I had to help mothers in this direction.
This is what I offer you in my guide.
Céline, received "deep change" support:
The quality of the attachment with your child is the key to his learning and good development.
Thank you Vanessa, you changed my vision and thanks to you I have found solutions and above all, I understood that putting myself in the child's shoes was one of the basics of education!
My daughter listens to me, she is regulated and I don't even have to shout or get angry anymore
Virginia, received "quick fix" support
Vanessa was able to reassure me about my daughter's eating disorder who finds it difficult to taste new textures and tastes.
I was able to put the seriousness of the problem into perspective, thanks to her I have opened my mind to new patterns that suit both of us.
Amber, received support
"deep changes"
My feedback on the follow-up with Vanessa.
Vanessa is a person, for my feelings, dynamic and soothing. She knew how to dissect my story. Provide support and clarity. Make me realize functioning mechanisms that restrict me in my life and my power as a woman and a mother. I managed to take back the reins of my life. To take back time for me, very simple on a daily basis, but also for great moments of well-being or activities, knowing how to ask for help around and organize myself better. Everything no longer always seems like a mountain to me. Even very rarely. Thank you very much for this wonderful year, partly thanks to you